I was just wondering what people?s thoughts are on regular masturbation while in a long-term relationship (dating/married). ?I understand that masturbation is?thought?to be a healthy activity, a way to relieve stress, a great way to get to know your body, etc. ? particularly during adolescence. ?However, when you enter a relationship, should you stop/lessen the amount that you masturbate because you have to think about how it affects your partner?
I know that not everyone shares my views, but personally, if my boyfriend were to go home every night after being intimiate with me and jack off to porn stars, I would feel hurt. ?I understand that people have their needs, and we live in a country where we have a lot of sexual freedom, but don?t we also have freedom to say no to some things that might hurt other people we care about?
I also feel like this depends on the context of masturbation. I feel like for some people, masturbation is more a physical thing than a mental/emotional thing, and it?s all about getting your body what it needs. ?However, I also know that for ?some people, including myself, masturbation is very much about the storyline and the ideas in my head, and less about what I?m actually doing to my body. ?Because of this, I sometimes think about what I masturbate to, and I think that if I were to tell my boyfriend about it, he would be hurt.
Thoughts?
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